Let's be honest about what The Housemaid is before we decide whether it's any good. This is a feminist revenge fantasy wrapped in an erotic thriller, adapted from Freida McFadden's bestselling novel, directed by the man who made the Ghostbusters reboot, and starring Sydney Sweeney in a role designed to weaponize her non-woke reputation for a film with a very specific woke thesis. That thesis is: the tradwife ideal is not just limited but specifically, sadistically dangerous. Conservative viewers should know that before they buy a ticket. Then they can decide whether the filmmaking is good enough to justify the trip anyway. Spoiler: it mostly is.

Millie Calloway (Sydney Sweeney) is on parole for manslaughter. She killed a classmate in high school who raped her. With no money and no options, she takes a live-in housemaid position with Nina Winchester (Amanda Seyfried) and her impossibly handsome husband Andrew (Brandon Sklenar) at their Great Neck mansion. Nina is erratic, demanding, and contradictory. She gives Millie instructions and then denies having given them. She has a history of hospitalization for trying to drown her own daughter and attempting suicide. Andrew is calm, reasonable, and sympathetic. He confides in Millie. He protects her from Nina's rages. They fall into an affair while Nina is away.

The twist arrives in the third act, and it is genuinely effective: Nina is not crazy. Andrew is the predator. He systematically drove Nina insane through years of psychological torture and sadistic punishments, all coded in the language of domestic perfection. He demanded she maintain blonde hair. When she forgot to dye her roots, he locked her in the attic and required her to pull out one hundred hairs from her own scalp until he was satisfied. He drugged her, framed her for violence against their daughter, and used the psychiatric hospitalization to consolidate his control. Nina hiring Millie was not victimhood. It was a trap. She accurately predicted that Andrew would leave her for a younger woman, believed Millie's criminal past gave her the psychological resilience to survive him, and left her a knife.

Sydney Sweeney is excellent here. She has been better in other things, but she is doing something genuinely complicated: playing a woman who is simultaneously the victim, the instrument, and the avenger across a story that keeps rewriting the ground rules beneath her feet. The character requires her to be vulnerable and ruthless in the same scene, and she mostly pulls it off. Amanda Seyfried is the revelation. She plays Nina's apparent instability with a commitment that makes the twist land. Every scene you spent believing she was the villain has to be reassessed in retrospect, and that retroactive reinterpretation works because Seyfried has layered her performance with tells that only become legible on second viewing. This is smart acting in service of a smart script.

Brandon Sklenar has the harder job. Andrew Winchester has to be believable as both the romantic lead and the monster. He manages it through restraint. He plays Andrew with a kind of quiet authority that registers as confidence until it registers as control. The scene where he hands Millie the broken china and quietly asks her why she did not wash it, a scene of pure psychological menace dressed as domestic disappointment, is the film's best.

Now here is where it gets ideologically complicated. The film is not subtle about what it is doing. Andrew's abuse is constructed specifically through the apparatus of traditional domestic ideals. He did not just abuse Nina. He abused her through demands for perfect housekeeping, hair color, household management, wifely performance. The tradwife ideal is not neutral background; it is the mechanism. One critic said the film falls just short of a full tradwife deconstruction. It does not fall short. The message is clear: domestic perfection demanded by a husband is not a conservative value. It is a control mechanism. The film believes this and is not hiding that it believes it.

The ending escalates this. Millie and Nina murder Andrew by pushing him off a staircase. A policewoman, whose sister was also victimized by Andrew, covers up the murder and rules his death an accident. Nina gives Millie a check for $100,000. Millie takes another housemaid job, this time specifically to help another woman escape an abusive husband. She is now running a vigilante rescue service for women, funded by the proceeds of one murder. The film plays this as unambiguous triumph. Female solidarity above the law is the film's final value.

Conservative viewers will find several things to object to here. A woman who commits murder is presented as heroic rather than criminal. Female violence against men is treated as justice rather than crime. Institutional authority (law enforcement) is subverted in service of a female solidarity that has no accountability. And the specific framing of traditional domestic ideals as abuse machinery is pointed directly at the values of the film's likely most vocally critical demographic.

What makes this complicated is that the villain is genuinely monstrous. Andrew Winchester is not a critique of normal husbandly authority. He is a sadist who uses domestic structures as cover for torture. Domestic abuse is real. Male predators who weaponize their partners' psychological vulnerability against them are real. A film that takes this seriously and presents consequences for it is not inherently wrong. The problem is the extrapolation. The film wants viewers to understand that the tradwife structure is itself the threat, not the predator using it. That leap, from 'this specific monster used domestic ideals as weapons' to 'domestic ideals are themselves weaponizable and therefore suspect,' is an ideological claim that the film makes without examining it.

Here is what conservative viewers can genuinely appreciate. The story works. The thriller mechanics are effective. The performances are strong across the board. Paul Feig, who has made a career out of likable mainstream entertainment, has made something genuinely dark here, and the darkness serves the story. The film respects the audience's intelligence enough not to telegraph the twist early. Nina and Millie's eventual solidarity is emotionally earned even if its moral logic is shaky. And Andrew Winchester gets exactly what he deserves in a way that is deeply satisfying regardless of your politics. Evil punished. Innocents defended. The traditional machinery of revenge narrative working exactly as it should.

Trope	Category	Location	Authenticity
Patriarchal Villain	WOKE	Throughout — Andrew Winchester uses traditional husband authority and domestic perfectionism as the machinery of sadistic control	Forced ideology: the film extrapolates from 'this specific predator used domestic structures' to 'domestic structures are instruments of patriarchal abuse.' The villain is real; the thesis is editorial.
Tradwife Deconstruction	WOKE	Throughout — Andrew demands blonde hair, perfect housekeeping, domestic performance; punishes imperfection in wifely duties with attic confinement and physical torture	Forced. The screenplay (not the novel) specifically constructed Andrew's abuse through domestic-ideal demands. This is an editorial choice to make traditional domestic values the weapon of the abuser.
Female Solidarity Above the Law	WOKE	Climax and denouement — Nina and Millie commit murder together; sympathetic policewoman covers it up in service of female solidarity; the law is subverted as morally correct	Forced. The film explicitly frames the legal system as inadequate for protecting women and female extrajudicial action as the necessary alternative. This is a specific ideological argument dressed as a thriller resolution.
Girl Boss Vigilante	WOKE	Final scene — Millie reframes as a professional vigilante housemaid who infiltrates abusive households and rescues women, funded by the proceeds of one murder	Forced. Millie's transformation into a vigilante heroine is earned dramatically (she's been through hell) but the moral logic is a progressive wish-fulfillment fantasy rather than a realistic outcome.
The Domestic Trap	WOKE	The Winchester household throughout — the perfect home, the stay-at-home wife, the beautiful daughter, the manicured lawn are all cover for systematic evil	Mixed. The critique of domestic ideals-as-mask-for-abuse has genuine grounding in real-world cases. But the film universalizes from a specific monster rather than examining the full range of domestic life.
Therapeutic Determinism (Inverted)	WOKE	Millie's backstory — her manslaughter conviction for killing a rapist is presented as fully justified; no moral ambiguity about vigilante justice for sexual violence	Mixed. Self-defense against rape is legitimate. The film's framing of Millie's manslaughter as unambiguously righteous requires no moral examination of the complexities of the legal and ethical question.
Female Solidarity as Moral Absolute	WOKE	Nina-Millie partnership throughout second half; policewoman's complicity in covering up Andrew's murder	Forced. The film presents female solidarity as a value that supersedes individual accountability, legal obligation, and moral complexity.
Institutional Failure	WOKE	Andrew's ability to have Nina institutionalized; nobody believed Nina when she told the truth; official justice is inadequate	Mixed. False institutionalization by abusive partners is documented. The film uses this reality to argue for extrajudicial female action rather than systemic reform.
Consequences of Evil	TRADITIONAL	Third act — Andrew's sadism is the direct cause of his death; he dies because of what he did, not because of random violence; the punishment fits the crime	Authentic. Whatever the ideological framing, the narrative structure is profoundly traditional. Andrew Winchester's sins are the engine of his destruction. He falls from his own staircase because of choices he made. This is the oldest moral logic in storytelling.
Defense of the Vulnerable	TRADITIONAL	Millie's arc throughout — she protects Nina, she protects herself, she goes on to protect other women in similar situations	Authentic as a narrative value, however contested the method. The impulse to defend the vulnerable from predators is foundational and traditional.
Maternal Love	TRADITIONAL	Nina's relationship with Cece throughout — despite everything done to her, Nina's love for her daughter is the emotional anchor of her arc; her sacrifice is for Cece's sake	Authentic. Nina's maternal devotion to Cece is the film's most traditional emotional thread. Maternal love as unconditional and worth any personal sacrifice is an unambiguously traditional value.
Courage Under Pressure	TRADITIONAL	Millie's confrontation with Andrew in the final act — she has been cut, locked up, terrorized, and drugged, and she still fights back	Authentic. Courage in the face of genuine threat requiring physical and psychological fortitude. The gender of the person showing it does not change the traditional nature of the value.
Truth Prevails	TRADITIONAL	The twist reveal — Nina's truth, which nobody believed for years, is ultimately validated and acted upon; Andrew's constructed reality collapses	Authentic. The truth emerging and destroying a carefully maintained lie is as traditional as storytelling gets. The specific ideological content of the lie does not change the traditional structure of its collapse.